| Many circles work on teaching that in order to become | | | | together in a psychic school circle to create |
| an accurate and proficient medium you need to learn | | | | acceptance, then there is no need for competition as |
| to get a link with spirit, and then get three accurate | | | | you either accept what you get or you do not. It has |
| pieces of evidence to prove that the link we have is | | | | no bearing on the other members of the circle. |
| true. | | | | However, when you do get a good link and you can |
| I believe that asking a beginner to get accurate | | | | offer honest, positive and accurate evidence to |
| evidence in or out of a meditation exercise is only | | | | another member of the circle, it enhances |
| promoting fear and doubt in their ability to do so. If they | | | | everyone’s learning and teaches that accepting |
| get the evidence wrong then they are learning to | | | | what they get and offering it honestly is a positive |
| judge themselves harshly. | | | | process of their development. |
| In all our human physical abilities, such as sport, if we | | | | Many circle leaders are very rigid in their teaching |
| start off getting it wrong , we do not expect to be | | | | methods, with many unnecessary rules and regulations, |
| accurate first time as we know we need to practice. | | | | because they themselves have been taught that way. |
| The more we practice the better we will become. This | | | | They expect other people to develop in that same |
| is the same for spiritually developing our spiritual gifts. If | | | | way, thus inadvertently stopping others from finding |
| we begin by disregarding accuracy, but work on | | | | their own path and hindering their progress. |
| getting used to linking and disconnecting and linking | | | | In a circle we are there to learn about our own |
| again with spirit, accepting anything we get, we build | | | | personal spiritual development. It is a very personal and |
| our confidence and thus open the door to far better | | | | private self discovery process that we share in a |
| accuracy, confirmation and evidence in the future. | | | | circle, so we may also learn from other people's |
| Focusing on accuracy makes for a very long and | | | | development. However we need to be sure we are all |
| arduous process of psychic growth and constantly | | | | developing in our own way. We need to strongly abide |
| belittles people in the process. | | | | by the most important law of spiritual development. |
| If we stop worrying about accuracy and instead | | | | “What feels right is right, what feels wrong is |
| promote acceptance, we learn that if we trust what | | | | wrong”. In saying this, many people may disagree |
| we hear, see or feel when we are open to spirit, we | | | | with what I have written, but I hope they disagree |
| can accept these things for ourselves and thus | | | | because it feels wrong, not because it was not the |
| promote our self confidence in our own development. | | | | way they were taught. |
| This promotes a fast and efficient method of | | | | After all that I have said I know that every single |
| development creating confident and proud mediums. | | | | person has their own opinion on their own psychic |
| Insisting on "evidence" also creates competition | | | | growth. I hope that this information promotes thinking |
| between the fledgling mediums, about who can get it | | | | and change in the way our wonderful and dedicated |
| right and who cannot. This in itself is also creating ego | | | | mediums teach and run their circles. Knowing that |
| problems. Ego, when out of control, is very much the | | | | what they are doing is for the highest of good beyond |
| opposite of spirituality. | | | | their own needs but is providing the universe with the |
| If we do not focus on evidence but rather work | | | | ability to connect to us on the earth plain. |