Build Monuments to Your Future

On my recent trip to Cambodia I was blessed toboat served as impromptu fish farms. The back of the
spend three days exploring the ruins collectively knownboat held a primitive outhouse. Children bathed in the
as Angkor Wat. We experienced sunrise and sunset,lake while old women cleaned fish or cooked noodles
as well as the noonday heat, in this magnificentin water dipped from the same source. The lake
complex of temples, many built more than 900 yearsserved not only a source of food and of cooking and
ago.drinking water, but as a bathtub and septic system as
Relics of Past Splendorwell. Here the ubiquitous televisions, and the outboard
These shrines were created with stones carried frommotors used to power the fishing boats onto the lake
far away; many were built without mortar, and all wereeach evening, were the only lifestyle changes in the
built without modern technology. Yet the structureslast 200 years.
have withstood the ravages not only of time andThe floating village and the bamboo shacks were light
weather, but also of mankind. Over the centuriesyears below the standard of living enjoyed by the
temple figures sacred to one religion (Buddhism) haveCambodians who designed and lived in the temple
been removed or destroyed by followers of anothercomplex at Angor Wat 900 years ago. All of those
religion (Hinduism), only to be replaced by the originalpast splendors seem lost today.
worshipers (Buddhists). Just as destructive wereThe Lessons of Forgetfulness
souvenir hunters who have taken pieces from theWhat caused such an advanced civilization to revert
carvings and sold them to collectors and museums.to a shadow of its former self? And what lesson can
Lastly, bullet holes and bomb damage mar many ofwe learn from this study in contrasts? To paraphrase
the temple walls - a legacy of the Khmer Rouge.George Santayana's famous line, "Those who cannot
Like the pyramids in Egypt and the Mayan ruins inremember the past are condemned to forget it."
Central America, Angkor Wat is the relic of an ancientSomehow the people of that floating village have
civilization that was far advanced for its time. Todayforgotten the grandeur of Cambodia's past. They have
many of the Angkor Wat temples are still in daily use. Ilost touch with the creativity and spirit that made
saw monks and worshipers kneeling in the temples,Angkor Wat possible. Instead of moving forward, they
burning incense and praying. Truly a profoundeither stayed the same or moved backwards - and
experience.perhaps that amounts to the same thing. Once we
Emblems of Today's Squalorcease to learn, build, create and stretch, we not only
In contrast, on my last evening in Cambodia, I took astop gaining or growing, we allow the rest of the world
boat ride through Chong Khneas, a floating fishingto pass us by. This is the equivalent of moving
village. This loose collection of more than 700 familiesbackwards.
of fishermen and a complete support community liveWe must ask ourselves each day, "Am I moving
on boats and travel Tonlé Sap Lake following theforward or simply standing still?" In our lives and at our
fish and the rainy season.work we all know people who refuse to change with
To reach the floating village we drove through thethe times. To our computer-savvy children watching us
town of Siem Reap and several smaller villages. Thestruggle to retrieve our email, we may look like
further from Siem Reap we traveled, the moreslow-moving dinosaurs. We cannot afford the luxury
primitive living conditions became. Homes went fromof standing still. To do so allows the world to move
cinder-block and concrete structures to woodenpast us. More importantly from a business standpoint, it
houses to one-room bamboo shacks supported onallows our competition to move easily past us.
spindly bamboo poles to protect them from flooding. IDo you risk becoming a relic of the past or a dinosaur
would have been afraid to roll over in my sleep inwhose fate is extinction? If you have any amount of
these houses, much less raise a family or ride out adoubt coursing through your veins, commit today to
monsoon in one. Electricity was nonexistent, and theeducation, growth and constant improvement, both
only running water was the stream we were followingpersonal and professional. And know that if up until
to the lake. The only nod to the 21st century wasnow you've been a bit lax, you're never too old or too
televisions, running on car batteries and prominentlyyoung to make this commitment to yourself. The
displayed in the glassless windows.lesson I learned in Cambodia is that I want to be the
The floating village consisted of hundreds of boats,one who builds monuments for the future - not the one
some no bigger than 20 feet by 6 feet. Entire familieswho wonders how the monuments of the past were
lived on each boat. Cages suspended underneath thebuilt.